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Wednesday, June 23, 2010

உலக தமிழ் செம்மொழி மாநாடு

As i was watching this video few things struck me and thought of sharing them.

First of all great work by AR Rehman and the anthem song has come out very well. However being a hard core fan of Iilayaraja I am wondering how Mastro would have composed this song...

This video is visually picturised very well - credit goes to the director. Couple of things which I liked in video are:

1. A girl enters into a Tech park and opens google in Tamil. How true it is. In which ever part of the world we are we always long to hear few words in Tamil.

2. A girl kid draws the picture of her father and mother on the wall and parents do appreciate it. That is a WOW feeling. Do whatever you want without getting scoldings from parents is cool.

Wednesday, June 09, 2010

Love and Marriage Explanation

Student asks a teacher, "What is love?"

The teacher said, "in order to answer your question, go to the wheat field and choose the biggest wheat and come back.

But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick."

The student went to the field, go thru first row, he saw one big Wheat, but he wonders....may be there is a bigger one later. Then he saw another bigger one... but may be there is an even bigger one waiting for him.

Later, when he finished more than half of the wheat field, he start to realize that the wheat is not as big as the previous one he saw, he know he has missed the biggest one, and he regretted. So, he ended up went back to the teacher with empty hand.

The teacher told him, "...this is love... you keep looking for a better one, but when later you realize, you have already miss the person...."

*"What is marriage then?" the student asked.

The teacher said, "in order to answer your question, go to the corn field and choose the biggest corn and come back. But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick."

The student went to the corn field, this time he is careful not to repeat the previous mistake, when he reach the middle of the field, he has picked one medium corn that he feel satisfy, and come back to the teacher.

The teacher told him, "this time you bring back a corn.... you look for one that is just nice, and you have faith and believe this is the best one you get.... this is marriage."

Friday, May 28, 2010

காதல் சொல்லும் இதயம்

உன்னை காணும் என் கண்களோ இரண்டு
உன்னிடம் காதலை சொல்லும் என் இதழ்கலோ இரண்டு
உன்னை காதல் செய்யும் என் இதயம் மட்டும் ஒன்று
உன் இதயத்தை என்னோடு சேர்பாயா...

Sunday, March 28, 2010

Parents

This was narrated to IIT students during a Seminar on Human Relations:

Venkatesh Balasubramaniam (who works for IIT) describes how his gesture of booking an air ticket for his father, his maiden flight, brought forth a rush of emotions and made him (Venkatesh) realize that how much we all take for granted when it comes to our parents.


My parents left for our native place on Thursday and we went to the airport to see them off. In fact, my father had never traveled by air before, so I just took this opportunity to make him experience the same. In spite of being asked to book tickets by train, I got them tickets on Jet Airways. The moment I handed over the tickets to him, he was surprised to see that I had booked them by air.. The excitement was very apparent on his face, waiting for the time of travel. Just like a school boy, he was preparing himself on that day and we all went to the airport, right from using the trolley for his luggage, the baggage check-in and asking for a window seat and waiting restlessly for the security check-in to happen. He was thoroughly enjoying himself and I, too, was overcome with joy watching him experience all these things.

As they were about to go in for the security check-in, he walked up to me with tears in his eyes and thanked me. He became very emotional and it was not as if I had done something great but the fact that this meant a great deal to him. When he said thanks, I told him there was no need to thank me. But later, thinking about the entire incident, I looked back at my life. As a child, how many dreams our parents have made come true.

Without understanding the financial situation, we ask for cricket bats, dresses, toys, outings, etc. Irrespective of their affordability, they have catered to all our needs. Did we ever think about the sacrifices they had to make to accommodate many of our wishes? Did we ever say thanks for all that they have done for us? Same way, today when it comes to our children, we always think that we should put them in a good school. Regardless of the amount of donation, we will ensure that we will have to give the child the best, theme parks, toys, etc. But we tend to forget that our parents have sacrificed a lot for our sake to see us happy, so it is our responsibility to ensure that their dreams are realized and what they failed to see when they were young. It is our responsibility to ensure that they experience all those and their life is complete.

Many times, when my parents had asked me some questions, I have actually answered back without patience. When my daughter asks me something, I have been very polite in answering. Now I realize how they would have felt at those moments. Let us realize that old age is a second childhood and just as we take care of our children, the same attention and same care needs to be given to our parents and elders. Rather than my dad saying thank you to me, I would want to say sorry for making him wait so long for this small dream. I do realize how much he has sacrificed for my sake and I will do my best to give the best possible attention to all their wishes.

Just because they are old does not mean that they will have to give up everything and keep sacrificing for their grandchildren also. They have wishes, too..

Take care of your parents. THEY ARE PRECIOUS

Saturday, March 13, 2010

Crazy.....

Today was kind of crazy. I had my break fast - good solid rice food. However within 15 min started feeling hungry. Then had a bottle of water. In the next 10 min again was hungry. Managed to stay hungry for another 30min and could not bear it anymore. Had couple of bananas. Oh... but still was hungry. So had a bar of chocolate.

Went to office and had a cup of coffee. Still :(

A friend of mine called when I told her abt this. She said it might be because of craving for some specific food and advised me to have something which I like. Quickly went to subway and got a sandwich. After having it felt much better.

Oh boy it was crazy as though I did not have food for days. Kind of crazy na...

Thursday, March 04, 2010

Last Day @ This Office

It has been more than 5 year since we moved into this office. We moved in on Oct 7th 2004. Today we are vacating this office. More than moving out of this building, I am feeling bad that we are leaving people here. I think we have one of the best known housekeeping department. They have spoilt us by getting anything and everything we wanted @ anytime anywhere. Will be missing them all.

Sunday, February 21, 2010

3.5 months since I wrote my last blog. Time is just flying these days and I am hardly finding time to do all the things I want to do.

Ok now, what should I write about. Have choices - about the last movie I saw, about things happening @ office, about life or about my Dubai trip. Hmm..... think I will write about the my Dubai trip.

Have been working without break for almost 6 years now and life is getting too monotonous. Work load is getting heavier and heavier and frustration is also building up. I think it is high time to take a break from work. I had been thinking about this for almost an year now and this time had decided.

Initially thought will take a break for 2 weeks - 1 week @ some relatives house and second week @ home. But this means I am reachable on phone. Wanted to stay completely away - esp without cell phone. Thats when Dubai struck me. Priya is there - so can just drop in and at the same time not reachable by anyone.

Then thought why not call Abarna also. Though not as expressive as me, she is also needs change. Moreover her sister is there, so why not. But it took me almost 2 months to convince her to come. Because of her, 1 week trip changed to 2 weeks now.

Just made couple of phone calls to Priya and few mail exchanges and all set for Dubai. We took a morning flight to Dubai and reached there in the evening. It was first time flight for Abs. For the first time she was pretty good. I remember the first time I went on flight.

We landed Dubai and completed all the formalities and came out. Abs's sister was already there and I had to wait for Balu to come and pick me. Pavam he had to rush from office to pick me. He dropped me home and left back to office. As soon as I entered Priya's house, her mom gave me a warm welcome and I could see she was happy to see me. And... Krishna was there. It is almost an year now since I saw him. He has grown and very happy to see the kutty. I had got him a cycle. Thought will open it when Priya comes back from office, but he did not allow me. So opened the parcel and it required some assembling. I was too tired to do it.

Priya came home and immediately took the tool box and assembled it. It was a surprise for me. All my life I have seen Priya as one lazy goose and irresponsible. But this Dubai trip was totally a shock for me. She has changed a lot over the years. Had become more responsible and I could hardly see the laziness in her. She gets up at 5:00 in the morning, cooks breakfast and lunch, leaves office @ 6:30, come back home around 5:00 in the evening, spends time with Krishna and cooks dinner. BOY..... I have never seen this Priya in my life.

I thoroughly enjoyed this trip, def one of the best in my life. Dubai reminded me of Singapore. Lot of resemblance between the two countries. Mornings were mostly spent with only Krishna and afternoons went out.

Day 1: Went to creek with Krishna. He had galla time in his train (thats his cycle) running from this end to that end and he gave me real exercise.

Day 2: Went to ski Dubai in Dubai metro. Dubai metro is an exact copy of Singapore metro. Not as good as Singapore but a good one. And Ski Dubai was awesome. I wounder how they manage to build a Ski in such a hot country. And the best part was Nachos and ice cream which we had there. People who love ice cream must visit cold stone. I was very impressed with the way they make ice cream and do mix and match.

Day 3: Priya and I went to Dhow Cruise. We traversed through water, in the cruise, looking at the city. After so many years, Priya and I had some good chat. We talked for about 2-3 hrs in the cruise. And before we could realise, we returned.

Day 4: It was Dolphin time. We went to Dolphinarium, Abs with her sis family had come there. We had some good time together. And Dolphin show was good, better than Singapore. But Priya had some tough time handling Krishna. He did not like the noise and darkness. She had to stay out most of the time trying to ease him.

Day 5: I love beaches and so went to one. Previous day we got a float for Krishna. But today he refused to use it - he was scared. It took him some time to get used to beach, but finally made it. Then we had to pull him out of the beach after some time.

Day 6: This is one of the best day in Dubai. Desert time - Priya did not want to come. So Abarna and I went to Dessert Saffari. It was total fun and I enjoyed it in and out. I enjoyed the food too. But Abs did not like the food. Well what else can you expect from a person who only loves South Indian spicy food. So I took her share of food too ;-)

Don't even ask me what I did other days. It was around the city and malls. Enjoyed every day. Priya's brother-in-law and his wife had come. They were no stranger for me. We roamed together, went out for dinner, saw movie and walked around malls.

Final day came and with no heart to leave Dubai esp Krishna and Priya I had to leave. I was on tears, but did not want them to know it. Gather myself up and Balu dropped me in the Airport. When Abs bid good bye to her sister she was on tears too. So both of us feel the same. Left Dubai and came back to India.

More to come... We landed at the airport and waited for our baggage. Every one left but still Abs did not receive her baggage. It was then we realised she lost her baggage. (It took almost a month for her to get her compensation and now she is recommending people not to travel through Jet Airways :).)

Next day had to go to office :(

This trip is a memorable trip for me. Those 12 days were like just 12 min and flew so fast. Don't know when am I going to have another trip like this again.